1. You should not put yourself forward too much.
If you want to get along well with people, It is important to love yourself. However, if you always show off and brag about yourself to the people around you, no one will like you. If you truly want to get along with people, deal with them in a modest manner.
2. Let's acknowledge the person himself as he is.
It is difficult to accommodate everyone. However, if you have a mindset to see him as he is, you feel comfortable with yourself. In the meantime, You just have to be as good as you can to that person.
3. You have to be good at tying and breaking up relationships with people.
It's good to be a good person with all your heart, but if the other person has no gratitude for it and keeps asking you, It's a good idea to reconsider whether to continue the relationship. Eventually, you get tired of the relationship. If the other person expects too much or is obsessed with you, you also need the courage to draw a line on a relationship and reject it in common sense. It is important to be honest with what you can and cannot do.
It's better to be careful not to talk too emotionally. It's better to be honest before you feel emotionally burdened and accumulate your emotions. You don't have to worry too much about your opponent leaving you. If that person really cares about you, your opponent will think about your common sense rejection and try to accept it sincerely. If not, you'd better think again about maintaining a relationship with that person.
4. Maintain a good relationship with yourself.
Those who have good relationships with themselves usually have good relationships with others as well. People who hate and disparage themselves often feel anxious. Since they are not confident in themselves, they are also unstable in relationships with others. They are worried that the other person will hate them, and as a result, they try to fit in as the other person wants, and eventually they gets tired of themselves. However, a person who loves and is confident in himself can afford to have a relationship with the other person. More positive energy comes from a relaxed mind. Then, the opponent with him will feel comfortable. There are ways to maintain a good relationship with myself, such as diary writing and meditation. If you write a diary, you can look back on how you spent your day and understand yourself better. The same goes for meditation. You can observe yourself more objectively. If you empty your mind through meditation, you will feel relaxed. Your mind changes positively and stress decreases. Therefore, you can be positive when dealing with others.
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